Thursday, June 10, 2010

I Have Days...But, I Made A Choice

I know that I joke around on my blog a lot, about how crazy my kids make me. I won't lie...they really do drive me to the brink of insanity, now and then.

I have days when I wonder how I got here. I have days when I miss only being responsible for myself. I have days when I miss the quiet. I have days when I miss showering alone. I have days when I miss being able to go out, without first finding a babysitter, making sure dinner is figured out for them...and then cancelling because someone got sick. I have days when I miss putting something down and it would stay there. I have days when I miss going to bed when I want and getting up when I want. I have days when I miss having a conversation with Josh, without being interrupted nine times.

But...I can't do these things.

I made a choice, the second that I found out that I was pregnant, to become a mother. I made a choice to put that little baby, first.

No. Matter. What.

I made a choice that I would give up the lifestyle that I had, and live solely for this tiny person, that I created. I made a choice, that I would love my child(ren) unconditionally. I made a choice to live selflessly and do whatever I had to do, to provide for and raise my baby(ies) to be wonderful, caring, selfless, educated, kind people.

That's what being a "mother", means to me. Making a choice to forever put someone else, before myself.

Even on the days that they drive me to the brink of insanity.


Mike and Jen said...

i love this. you are such a good mom! i hope i can be a mom like you are to your kids!

Sharon said...

I needed this today. Thanks!

Anonymous said...

Thanks for putting things into perspective, I am totally at my breaking point with my kids and needed to read something like this.